Hi. So it’s late here in LA and I want to go to sleep but I must fulfill my responsibility of writing a blog post so here I am.
Relationships. Well I just got out of one at the end of November 2017, and since then I’ve reflected a lot and have had many realizations. I’ve learned a lot. I’ve learned a lot about myself and about males.
If you want to be in a successful relationship, you have to have the maturity for it. That means that you have to already have your own adult life in order before getting serious with anyone.
Otherwise you enter into an unhealthy codependent relationship, or you become too needy or clingy because you haven’t figured out what makes you happy and fulfilled as an individual.
You need to stop dreaming about being in a relationship and take care of fulfilling your own life dreams first. Then whatever relationship you’re in it will be much smoother than if you haven’t learned to be single person.
That’s all I have and it’s just about 5 minutes now.
Learn to be a happy human being on your own. Don’t depend on someone else to make you happy. Otherwise you will suffer very much in the long run.
Also, you need to make sure the one you’re in a relationship with is stable and mature enough as well. Or else one of you will end up taking on a parent-like role.
Ok good night y’all.