• When You Hate the One You Love

    When you have strong negative feelings toward the one you love, it sucks. It throws you off guard when you’ve been together for a long while already, after all the ups and downs you’ve been through together, after meeting the families, after becoming a part of each other’s lives for so long, after being engaged and planning for your wedding and marriage. Love and hate are surprisingly easy to go back and forth between, because they are both strong feelings and similar in intensity. It’s not the norm, at least for me, to feel indifferent. Of course there are days when things are not good nor bad, but comfortable, and…

  • Wedding Planning As a Broke “Adulting” Person

    First of all, yes, I’m engaged! YAY!! First came the excitement and joy of sharing with all our loved ones the wonderful news, and then, as the days, weeks, months go by, the reality of it all has made itself clear to us – Weddings. Are. Expensive. AHHHHHH! So I really didn’t know where I was going with this whole blogging thing. It’s turned into this sort of hodgepodge of exploring the psyche of depression and then random experiences and sharing on what I’ve learned in this new(ish) stage of my life called Adulting. Sometimes I’ll give my post a title and then proceed to write about something completely different.…